Martha, Mary and Mayhem
A podcast that challenges tradition

Bold Teaching, Candid *Conversations*

Martha, Mary and Mayhem, hosted by Cassandra Barbato and Amber Jenks, is where truth confronts tradition and the Gospel shatters strongholds. With bold biblical teaching and candid conversation, we’re digging into Scripture, challenging inherited assumptions, and rediscovering the freedom, authority...

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Sept. 1, 2026

Lady Wisdom - Proverbs 31 Woman

The Proverbs 31 woman has been handed to generations of women like a holy to-do list—but that misses the bigger picture. This woman is Lady Wisdom in action: strong, strategic, skilled, generous, financially savvy, and rooted in the fear of the Lord. She buys land, builds wealth, manages resources, teaches wisdom, cares for the vulnerable, and is praised for the fruit of her own hands. In this season finale, Cassandra Barbato and Amber Jenks take a fresh look at Proverbs 31 and uncover a pictu
Aug. 25, 2026

The Very Good

In Episode 7, The Very Good, we head into the New Testament and meet women who didn’t just sit on the sidelines—they carried the gospel, taught truth, led, served, and worked alongside the apostles. From Mary Magdalene, the first witness of the resurrection sent to preach the Gospel, to Phoebe, Junia, and Priscilla, Scripture gives us a compelling picture of women actively participating in the work and leadership of the early church. These stories remind us that when God calls, gifts, and sends
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Aug. 18, 2026

Nailed It!

God didn’t need a “Plan B” when He called women to lead. In this episode, we look at Deborah, Jael, and Huldah—women God deliberately used to lead, speak His word, and deliver His people. We unpack why Deborah’s leadership was not evidence that...
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Aug. 11, 2026

Getting A Head

So… is the husband really the “head of the household”? Funny thing—Scripture never actually says that. In this episode, we take a closer look at what Paul means when he calls the husband the “head” of the wife in Ephesians 5 and 1 Corinthians 11....
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Aug. 4, 2026

Women Need Not Apply?

Did Paul really hang a “Women Need Not Apply” sign for church leadership? In 1 Timothy 3, the difference between “if any man” and “if anyone” is no small translation choice. We dig into the Greek, tackle the phrase “husband of one wife,” and explore...
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July 28, 2026

Women Be Silent

“Women should be silent in church.” Case closed—or is it? In this episode, Cassandra and Amber take a closer look at 1 Corinthians 14:34–36, the surrounding context, Paul’s rhetorical style, and the very inconvenient fact that Paul had already...
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July 21, 2026

Silly Women, Authority's For Men

Does the Lord allow women preachers and teachers or is 1 Timothy 2:12 really God’s permanent “No Girls Allowed” sign for ministry. Have we mistaken Paul’s response to a troubled church for a universal restriction on every woman, everywhere... forever? Cassandra and Amber dig into the false teaching circulating in Ephesus, the influence of the goddess Artemis, and the context surrounding Paul’s instruction that a woman should learn quietly. Because turning a church-specific correction into a per
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July 13, 2026

Let Them Rule

In this episode of Martha, Mary and Mayhem, Cassandra Barbato and Amber Jenks head back to Genesis in search of truth and unity. Turns out God already gave us both when He said, “Let them rule.” We’re talking Adam, Eve, the garden, the fall, and a few long-standing church assumptions that may need to be escorted politely—but firmly—out of the building. With Scripture open they dig into what the Bible actually says about authority, unity, and the Gospel that redeems what the fall distorted. "Th